Self LESS

First of all let me say ... I really struggle with this.  And I am not talking about being too selfLESS, I am talking about being too selfISH.  I am fortunate to have had great examples of selfLESSness in my life.  It is great to see the happiness that comes from being selfLESS.  People who are selfLESS are interested in others and their well being.  They are interested in spreading love and peace to all that they come in contact with.  On the opposite side of that, is selfISHness.  People that are selfISH are typically unhappy, take themselves way to serious and have very few people who really care about them.  They spread jealousy and hate to the world around them.  I really want to be more selfLESS.  It seems to me that both are a choice and both are habitual in nature.  Creating a habit daily to do something for someone else without them knowing about it is my first step on the journey to being more selfLESS.